How do you ever expect to meet someone if you keep talking yourself out of what’s possible? Sound familiar? If it does, you need to stop doing this to yourself right now. “He’s so much better looking than me – it will never work” and “He’s got money and I don’t so I’m not even going to bother.” But instead of trying to make something happen, you shoe him away because you think you’re not good enough. You know what I’m talking about right? It’s called the game of comparisons and it’s one of the most toxic things you can do to yourself. End the mental sabotageĪnother reason that may be contributing to your single gay status is the mental game you play with yourself. Translation? Love your body as it is now and create a plan for change in the areas you don’t like. We cannot attract what we do not possess. Here’s the thing – the shame you bring upon yourself for not having an Adonis physique is subconsciously sabotaging any chance of meeting someone. Perhaps your arms could be bigger or your chest larger.
If there’s one thing that’s keeping you single, it’s the shame you bring on to yourself for your imperfect body. Read them all anyway so that you can fully absorb their deeper meaning.
